la la land | If a guy likes you and you like him but, he doesn’t talk to you. Like, he’s nervous or never had a girlfriend before. Should you talk to him and take the first step? Both of us are Christians by the way. Like, I’m used to hearing “Wait for him to make the first move.” “Don’t force anything” but I mean it’s been about a year now.

Anonymous asked: If a guy likes you and you like him but, he doesn't talk to you. Like, he's nervous or never had a girlfriend before. Should you talk to him and take the first step? Both of us are Christians by the way. Like, I'm used to hearing "Wait for him to make the first move." "Don't force anything" but I mean it's been about a year now.

welllllll if a guy has liked you for an entire year but doesn’t talk to you…my question would be, how do you know he likes you? has he told you this? or did someone else tell you?

i’m always a fan of the “hey i like you” method, but it sounds like you guys don’t have an organic friendship anyways, so maybe you guys don’t work well together. being friends should be relatively easy. AH i have so many questions! and you’re anonymous! is he just terrified to speak to girls? or does he have “omg i have such a big crush i can’t even use my words properly” syndrome?

either way, don’t worry about the romantic part until you know you can hold a friendly conversation. work on that first.<3