la la land | interesting topic came up in a conversation last night: is it okay to be interested in/pursuing two people at the same time? if there is no commitment to either, and you are genuinely just trying to figure out if either is a possibility, but yet some interest is being communicated on both ends?

Anonymous asked: interesting topic came up in a conversation last night: is it okay to be interested in/pursuing two people at the same time? if there is no commitment to either, and you are genuinely just trying to figure out if either is a possibility, but yet some interest is being communicated on both ends?

ummm i’ve tried this before and it gets pretty messy pretty fast. you can also watch the bachelorette to see how that works out, haha. no but seriously, it’s usually fine so long as everyone knows what’s going on. the worst is going out several times with a guy who doesn’t know you’re also going out to dinner with someone else. you have to pay a LOT of attention to emotional and physical boundaries to make sure you don’t end up in a hurt place, or hurting someone else.