la la land | Is is wrong to be superficial? I want to wait for the right guy, with moral standards and all, but is it not fair that I am so picky about wanting an ATTRACTIVE good guy??! I feel like I’ll never find anybody!

Anonymous asked: Is is wrong to be superficial? I want to wait for the right guy, with moral standards and all, but is it not fair that I am so picky about wanting an ATTRACTIVE good guy??! I feel like I'll never find anybody!

1. yes it’s wrong to be superficial, but maybe not in the way you think. superficial is defined by what exists ONLY at surface level. surface level is only dangerous when you ignore everything below it.

2. always wait for the right guy. don’t ever settle. especially for a man with differing moral standards. it’s totally fair. and you’re totally worth it. don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

3. yes, you will be attracted to your future husband. there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a hot guy! (secret: the ‘attractive’ scale is one that is defined by the individual, not by the culture. so if you find him attractive, he IS.)